Monday, November 21, 2011

strange choices, detox and his version of poetry

there's a part of me the wants to quietly slip away for a while and come back when i'm ready to be again.  be what?  the person people like to like more when i am the more me than the me me, or something like that.  this is where i know who people are to me.  the ones that just don't care so long as i show up.  (because they know, i will show up).  so then there is born the strange choice:  in the next six weeks left in the year - i won't call, write or text anyone, unless in response to or required to.  (but damn, that would be boring).  so no.  no strange choices for me.
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detox got awful that last week.  i thought about never doing it again, but then i realized:  what if it's actually getting to where it needs to be?  therefore:  after thanksgiving i'm going to start a liver and lung cleanse:  time to get rid of the cellular memory of pain, anger, sorrow, jealousy, blah blah blah....  the more of that stuff i get rid of, the more room i will have for love and therefore offer more.
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he likes to write to me, but he needs a response.  i've stopped responding.  it's not fair to either one of us.  this situation, any of it.  so i am walking away from his version of poetry and into my very real life.


all love,
m


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