Sunday, January 1, 2012

heart(maps)

when i was young, i wanted to be an architect.  after three and a half years of studying that, i changed my mind.  the isolation got to me.

i took about a year off of school, studied english lit for a year, and then someone introduced me to city planning.  i liked it.  in one of my first intro classes we learned about cognitive mapping - that's when i fell in love.

place in terms of more than lines and demarcations.  here now was a new way to translate the word - in terms that i more readily could understand.  in that moment i found a home, a community of advocates and do gooders, politicians and ...  a future.  i loved the field so much that i got my MS in it as well.  i really believe that it is a noble profession and holds immense value...  i miss doing it.

when i started acting, i found another community i felt at home with.  not to say that i do not feel at home at home, just that i find so much of my ability to communicate lost in translation(s).

very often i feel as though the world around me is speaking a language i didn't quite learn, like i am a foriegner speaking a language i understand maybe a third of and hence i find myself trying harder to fit in.  belong.  (i'm not a loner by any means, but again - not sure if what i am sharing makes sense)  i tried to share this sensation with a friend tonight and fell short.  in that moment i realized: it's okay.  just breathe.  just be.  in being, maybe i will be understood and understand.

there are no maps to hearts, no real ways in or out.  just a silent interchange.  whether you believe in forever or not, whether you believe in constancy, consistency or longevity or not...  i believe.  turns out, i believe.  my hope is: that will be enough.  my hope is:  i will be enough.

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